Your girlfriend, boyfriend, spouse, life partner, whoever it may be, just dumped you. Now what? Well, that all is dependent upon what YOU want to have happen next.

If you’re OK with being separated and choose to enjoy the single life, do whatever you choose, I can’t help you. However, if you really want your ex back, I’m glad to say that I can help you get my ex back, but it is absolutely essential that you observe some straight forward steps.

Step 1 - Accept that the separation was the correct choice. You may be thinking to yourself “is this guy nuts? I don’t want them to think that. I want them to think that I want them back”. That’s one of the typical errors men and women make when they attempt to get their ex back.

By admitting to your ex that you agree with the break up does two things: first, you and your ex are agreeing on something, which is likely something that you haven’t done in a while, and it’ll probably feel really good for both of you, and second, it instantly takes away a sizable amount of the stress that is being experienced by both of you.

Now that you’ve laid the footing, it’s time to execute step 2.

Step 2 - Actually, this is more something that you shouldn’t do than what you should do. DO NOT contact your ex about anything! Sever all communication and allow her the space that she wants. This will give her ample opportunity to miss you again. When she starts to miss you, she will start to think progressively more about you.

Simple human psychology suggests that we want something increasingly more, the more and more we can’t have it. The more that you detach yourself from her, the more that she’s going to want you back.

Remember when you were dating in high school. Which was more fun, the chase or the catch? The chase is always the fun part, because you’re hunting something that you don’t have yet, which makes you desire it even more.

Step 3 - Plan the Get Together

When you have completed the 2 steps described above, you can start working on planning on when you should meet, where you should meet, and also what should be said when you do meet up again. This will enable you to get a much better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you, and also if there is any chance that you and your ex will be able to get back together.

“How to get back my ex?” can be slightly more complicated than the three steps above. Yet, they are a good beginning and will improve your chances of winning your ex back.

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